Welcome to CCnCCDay today. May God, The Founder & the Architect of Marriage, Bless your home and every department of your Marriage today and always. Singles, prevention as they say is better than Cure please be encouraged to read along as well and be Blessed. Cherished Couples, UNDERSTANDING the Marriage Concept gives you an edge to make the BEST of it. What you don’t know will definitely rule over you. Let’s study what Marriage is and is not.

Marriage is NOT a driver’s license; it is a learner’s permit. It is a Lifelong Institution where NEW things are discovered everyday. Be receptive to new things, don’t limit yourself to what you knew before marriage. You are NOT a finished product neither is your spouse. We are all Work In Progress; striving for Perfection. Be Patient with each other as the Lord continues to work on both of you. Marriage is neither democratic nor an autocratic relationship. It is “LVECRATIC”. Work Together in LVE to make it a Success. It is NOT about who is right or who is wrong but about the BEST way forward. Discuss and make Decisions in LVE. Marriage is a Garden of LVE. It needs your Attention despite your busy schedule. You must TEND it, you are not to fight in it. It is neither 50/50, it is 100% Giving, an Unconditional Contract. Therefore the level of your input should NOT be determined by how little or how much your partner puts into it. Beloved, your spouse is NOT a gift to you but a Surprise Package. There would be a lot of shocking or new things you will learn about your spouse, make allowance for surprises. Your spouse may end up not being what you dreamt of. Accept him / her the way he or she is and try to BRING Out the BEST in him or her. Never ever should you compare your spouse with another person. Cherished Couples, your Marriage is what you make it to be. Don’t blame anybody for the state of your Marriage. It is you, who determines what happens, stop blaming your in laws, your spouse, your children, the economy, check yourself. Any other person in your Marriage is a Third Party. Your children are not part of your marriage, though they are part of your family. Your mother, father, siblings etc are all Third Parties in your Marriage. DON’T Allow them to destabilize your Marriage.

Marriage needs selflessness. You can’t be selfish and enjoy your Marriage; no it must be a Selfless Service. It involves continous Adjustment. Change is inevitable- Adjustment is Continuous. Couples, don’t turn your Marriage to a Dry and Dab Relationship. Turn on the Light of Romance in your Marriage and enjoy your love . Because your Marriage is a LVE Affair, a haven of Peace and Joy. Always add fuel to the fire of Romance in your Marriage. Be totally content with each other as you place great value on your mate and Marriage. Welcome into your Next Level of Marital Bliss. Our Singles God shall settle you and you will enjoy your Marriage.

Shalom

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