❤️SUCCESSFUL COUPLES are people with a TEAM SPIRIT. Marriage is a Team Work, it is not just a Romantic Relationship, it is a Team Relationship. Marriage PARTNERS do more than Romancing each other, they have to work together as a Team, fighting their battles facing all issues, celebrating victories, raising children, facing their challenges and Serving God.
?Couples, if this Marital Journey must be smooth, you must Develop TEAM MINDEDNESS. It follows logically that a Marriage cannot work when a Couple relates with “SOLO Mindedness”. Couples have a “you”- focus. Lose focus of “MEISM” which is “Me”, “I” and “Myself”. Avoid using this focus in Marriage. Always say “you”, “we”, “our”. One MIND Team spirit enhances the health of Marriage. So DROP Solo thoughts, eating, dressing, purchasing and sleeping alone. That is self centered existence. Serve each other, help each other.
?Don’t just serve your spouse, make sacrifices, help your spouse when it is not convenient, and go all the way to give a hand of support even when it hurts. Do not be content with what your spouse will do for you, rather look out for what you can do for him or her. As a Servant be ready to Serve Selflessly & Sacrificially, [ the 3 S’s of Marriage].?
?Of course you must Dream Together- building a house, buying a car, starting a business. Celebrate Success Together. Togetherness means that you and your spouse have been joined together to form a SINGLE ENTITY. You have to work on it to get there by lots of coordinated activities like Eating Together, Sleeping on the same bed in the same room, Putting on the same clothes, Playing and Laughing together, Praying together, Going to church together, Strolling hand in hand together and activities that build and strengthen intimacies in marriage. They make you become INSEPARABLE. ?Col 3:14?
❤️Do away with Negative Emotions like excessive demonstration of anger, malicious statements and attitudes, negative thoughts and statements, unfriendliness. These negative emotions can destroy any marriage if left unchecked.?
?Couples, if you have ONE Mind, One goal, One goal, One Vision, One Plan you will have more than ONE Success.
Be constantly reminded that the devil does not want you to stand as one, hence he will use everything to destabilize your unity. That is why you must pray for UNITY in your home.
?? My prayer for your home today is Our God who Is L❤️VE, should BIND you and your spouse with unbroken cord of L❤️VE and may HE join your Minds & Hearts Together as ONE always and make your home a SUCCESS.?Phil 2:2?
?Continue to work together as a Team. Team work breeds L❤️VE in Marriage as everybody is able to Celebrate Success and have a rest in the fact that he or she has somebody to rely upon.?
❤️Beloved, Strengthen your FAMILY bonds this Christmas Period.
Your Family is Moving Forward.
?Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a Wonderful New 2019?.
?CCnCC? Celebrates you.❤️
